Sunday, September 6, 2015

7 weeks

September 2015

Dear Benson,

You are 7 and a half weeks old.  Last week, you started smiling and gargly-cooing.  You are getting chubbier little legs.  One day I woke up and your skinny little bird legs were gone!  You are sleeping better through the night.  It is a joy to have you around.  You are growing up way too fast...I want you to stay my little baby forever.  You still love to be in our arms laying by us to fall asleep and like to be swaddled. 

I love you.

Mom


A little trip to Driggs this past week to pick up a Bountiful Basket


Your Blessing Day

Sunday, September 6, 2015

Dear Benson,

Oh how I love you!  The day that you were born was such a perfect, reverent, magical day.  And today, was another one of those days.  I am exhausted from such a wonderful day.  It is days like today that I just don't want to ever come to an end.

Today was the day that you, my sweet Benson received your name and a special priesthood blessing from your daddy.  What a wonderful day it was!

Meema Sherri made you the most handsome little baby outfit (a little white collared shirt, a pin stripe vest and pin stripe shorts with little baby blue accents of buttons, a handkerchief and tie).  I love that you will always have this special outfit made by your grandma.

Your great aunt Kathy made him the most beautiful baby blue blanket.  This is also something that will always be so special for you to have.  I always say it is a good thing that others will make you special things like this because you won't get stuff like this from me!  My talents lie in other areas :)

Our family from Utah came into town on Saturday.  We got to have them stay in the empty apartment right below ours, which was such a blessing.  That is also where we got to have the luncheon.

Dad and I had been praying to know what Heavenly Father would have you receive today.  The blessing Dad gave you was so calm, and I loved the unique blessings just for you which included:
  •  How grateful we were that you chose to come to Earth at this time and follow Heavenly Father's plan in heaven.  Also, that, you, Benson could rely on help from Heavenly Father because of that choice
  • Continue to choose the right throughout your life
  • Love the commandments; to gain an understanding of the eternal benefit of being obedient
  • Have a love for the temple
  • Desire to study the scriptures and find power in the words to guide your life
  • Be mindful of the obligation you have to bless others with his healthy mind and body
  • Seek spirits guidance and lead family in His light
At the end of the blessing, Papa Kevin commented how you were just gazing up at Dad.  What a special thing for, you, Benson Blaine, to be named after daddy, one of my heroes, and my eternal sweetheart.

After Dad gave you the blessing, Dad and I just cried as Dad held you in his arms.  It seemed as if the world seemed to hold still for just a moment as we sang the sacrament hymn and looked at our sweet baby boy.  Benson, you have such a sweet, valiant spirit.  I love you little boy!  It is moments like these that make everything worth it.   

I felt so spoiled to have all the family that we love be with us at church and then afterwards for a luncheon.  I just loved visiting with all of our friends and family, and watching people love on you and spend time together over great food.

It is 9:30 p.m. now and since we only got less than 4 hours of sleep last night, we are exhausted!  Dad, Hyrum, Afton and I were all a bit grumpy tonight and everyone is in bed but me.  But I couldn't let the day end without documenting this perfect day.

Miracles that happened today:  I found my earring that I lost after saying a prayer to find it.  Also, tonight when I went to go and clean up the apartment that we used after you and your siblings and Dad were in bed, I walked in and all the tables and chairs were put away and everything was tidied up....thanks to Shayne and MaryAnn, our neighbors and true friends.  I could have cried, I felt so grateful that I didn't have to clean much up.  I marched over to their house to give them a hug and tell them thank you.  It is moments like this that I know that Heavenly Father sends earthly angels to watch over us.



Monday, January 12, 2015

So Excited

Monday, January 12, 2015
from Mom

Dear Baby #3,

Oh how I love you!  Just a couple months ago, we found out that we had another miracle joining our home...YOU!  I can't wait to hold you and meet you and kiss you and smell your sweet newborn breath.

Just last week, I felt you for the first time.  I was 12 and 1/2 weeks along at that point.  I know they tell you that you can't feel your baby until they are 18+ weeks along, but I have felt both your brother Hyrum and your sister Afton when I was about 14 or 15 weeks along.

On January 2, this year, we got to see you via ultrasound.  You were a crazy little jumping bean.  The ultrasound tech could barely get a measurement of how big you were because you were doing flips and flailing your arms and lets and jumping all over the place.

I have been very sick with you.  Half of a Unisom and a B6 is what I have been taking to help the sickness.  The nauseasness was really bad in November and I also had a rib go out which was awful, but the chiropractor whipped me into shape.

I will be 14 weeks on Saturday, which I am happy about because that means that I will be in the second trimester carrying you, my sweet babe.

We told everyone that you would be joining our family with a belated postcard from the "five of us."  It was fun to talk to all of your family members that already love you so much and hear how excited they were for you to come to earth.

I love you Baby Murray.  I know you will are courageous and strong.  I am glad you made the choice to come to earth.  You are coming to less than perfect parents that love you so much already.  I am working on my weaknesses each day, and hope you will be patient with me as we continue on our journey back to our Heavenly Father together.  Recently, my goal is more organization in my life because my lack of it affects our whole family in a negative way.  We did a better job last week keeping the house clean and organized.  This week we are trying to exercise every day for an hour before dinner.

I can't wait for July...it can't come fast enough!

I love you Baby Murray #3.
Mom